Top 12 Questions on Using a Balanced Name
5) Would it be a slap in my parents’ face to change my
name?
Parents want the best for you. At first they may not realize that the balanced
name is the best for you. However, it has been our experience that parents will
appreciate the balanced name if you patiently persevere in consistently using
your new name. One testimonial expressed the following, “When I changed
my name, even though my parents accepted the change grudgingly at first, they
became much more intrigued as they saw me change for the better over time.”
Most people are emotionally tied to their names. This is evident in the many
thoughts that one gets when considering a balanced name change. If we have to
overcome these emotional concerns, imagine how many concerns those who care
about us have, but lack the evidence of a Name Report! Be patient. Assure them
that a name change does not have to affect your relationship with them. If you
can assure them that the balanced name will help you lead a happier and more
fulfilled life, it is hard to imagine a parent that would not at least try to
accept it.
No doubt there are some parents who will not see any point of view other than
their own. At this point, you have to make a choice and do what is best for
you.
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1) With a balanced name will I lose the positive qualities of
my existing names?
2) Would it be too difficult professionally for me to make a
name change?
3) I identify with my name. Would the transition be too difficult?
4) Is it difficult to present a name change to business contacts,
family, friends, and acquaintances?
5) Would it be a slap in my parents’ face to change my
name?
6) Do I need to know more before making this change?
7) When I change my name to a balanced name, my wife changes
hers, and we change our children's names, would we all have to have different
last names?
8) Is it legally complicated to change my name?
9) Is it true that only people who are in financial trouble change their names?
10) Will I lose my memories and forget who I am?
11) “A name is a name.” Can't you make it work for
you if you really want it to?
12) Am I too old for a name change?
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